tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1415343028540596846.post7866076229890358118..comments2024-02-28T19:51:24.211+00:00Comments on Dream. Recover. Live.: What's this 'Identity' thing you talk about?Sarah Robertsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14221184508059112381noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1415343028540596846.post-71893816664324834592012-05-13T18:53:37.825+01:002012-05-13T18:53:37.825+01:00"the times that I comment as soon as I’ve wat..."the times that I comment as soon as I’ve watched something inspirational ends up making sense." Exactly. This this and more this. Remind yourself of that when you doubt yourself of that when you begin to doubt who you really are, and when you fall into the "its unfair" trap. Just like FF has helped you, it has helped me tremendously - before and during hosting time. And being a part of it has even further strengthened the message that I AM GREAT AS I AM. I was going to say "okay" but not okay - great. And to embrace my differences - I am often aware of my body's shape, for example, and there was a time when I despised it. But now I am learning to embrace it. The same goes for all sorts of features, expressions, etc....my despising these things spoke to something much deeper, and now, as I learn to embrace them and wholly become them, I learn to love myself and who I am and who I was always meant to be. What did I love / not give a crap about / use in a healthy way (in terms of my body / voice / face etc) when I was a kid? Seriously....what can I get back from that and now build upon, now that I am wiser and have developed more insight over the years. Just some questions to ask yourself, love. Take good care and please know that the inspiration goes both ways!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14307592755223647809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1415343028540596846.post-34831261240031129392012-05-13T16:42:50.469+01:002012-05-13T16:42:50.469+01:00reality is so much harder than what it sounds like...reality is so much harder than what it sounds like when other people talk about it or when you go about it in your mind. yet, whenever you listen to messages like that, you are fighting the eating disorder. you might not realise it straight away but every time you listen to other people tell their stories about how they found their identity, you will come to believe it more. not only for others but for yourself. it's a work in progress and it can't be done overnight. however, if you keep looking for that positive input, the ed will loose more and more of its power and make room for who you truly are. :) love, tess xxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1415343028540596846.post-78839790129495351452012-05-13T14:58:29.204+01:002012-05-13T14:58:29.204+01:00I'm glad you're thinking beyond where you ...I'm glad you're thinking beyond where you have thought before. Just like the title and subtitle of your blog promises, there are so many dreams and so many possibilities. :-)Arielle Bair, MSW, LSWhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05087215272280856919noreply@blogger.com